The Trials of Being a Gurl

This post will be about some of the things that I have had and am currently having to deal with in my transitioning. And there are a lot of them in my opinion. And more will probably come that I haven’t even thought of before. For now there is makeup, nail polish, body care (shaving […]

I am Ignored (My Sexual Orientation)

I am Ignored! This pertains to my sexual orientation not being specifically included in questionnaires, transgender article, and transgender books. So you might wonder what my actual sexual orientation is. I call myself a translesbian, This is problematic in its own way though. So I will discuss this first. And move onto examples I have […]

Yeah! I am on a Waiting List.

Yes, Stephie is on a waiting list. “For what Stephie?” For voice feminization training. So I made a call early last week, and had to leave a message. Oh, at The University of the District of Columbia Voice Care Clinic. When I didn’t hear back I called back at the end of the week. I […]

I Wore My Wig Out for the First Time.

While I am getting a human hair wig from Santa this Christmas, I do own a synthetic one. It is obvious that it is a wig. For one it doesn’t look like natural hair, although I think the color looks right. Lightish brown. It is also a lot of hair, so that part should give […]

It’s a Clothes Thing

We all have to wear them. Unless you live in a nudist camp. Can I really have an issue with wearing them? I sure can. It is not wearing them per se, but the kind of clothes that is my issue. So, yes I do have a thing about clothing. There are several areas to […]

Made an Appointment

Yes Stephie did it! She made her first appointment for an endocrinologist. She is schedule for March 4, 2020. Initially I thought hormone replacement therapy (hrt) was a goal for this coming summer. But, when I mentioned having found a endocrinologist within walking distance of my girlfriend’s my therapist asked me when I was planning […]

I Wore a Skirt Today

I wore a skirt for the first time today out in the wide wide world. I had purchased a black knit with white threading, a-line below the knee style skirt and a black top with silver highlights at the bottom that I got at a Goodwill store on Saturday. After my morning walk I slowly […]

I will be looked at.

This is about a concern and a goal of mine I have for my transitioning. I plan on a full transition to living as a woman, including my legal name and gender change. It is only natural, or so it seems to me, that over the course of time I will be looked at and […]

Am I Beautiful?

Some seem to think so. Two people anyway. The first was my first date (still a post to come) on the 12th of November. I met her (a trans femme CD) in the hotel lobby where she was staying. I was sitting there made up with a femme knit cap with crossed legs. I stood […]

A Visit to the Women’s Room

This was a Stephie first. I went on my first date (another post to come), where we met at a hotel before we went shopping at the local mall. I had to go to the bathroom before we left. My girlfriend before I left, and my date in the hotel lobby agreed that I could […]