I am Now Female

I am now a female. Well, according to the state of Maryland’s Motor Vehicle Administration. Yesterday (6/29/20) I had my gender marker changed on my state ID card. Actually the ID says Sex: “F.” The process was like easy breezy. You need no medical certificate to make the change. Just declare your new gender. I […]

I Became Stephie

Wasn’t I her along. Deep deep inside it may have been, but I was not aware of it. My memories are so fuzzy growing up it is hard to recall my gender feelings. Some gurls know from very early on. Some have memories of dressing in gurly clothes as a kid. Well I don’t and […]

It’s Me

I have been thinking of late about how much more I feel like myself (some would say “true” self) since I began my transitioning to live my life as a woman. It is still surprising to me how much progress I continue make in my transitioning (My Amazing Progress as of 2/16/20). I have started […]

Coming Out to My Property Manager

Okay, I have been meaning to do this for months—telling my property manager I am a transgender woman. I live in a housing program for people with mental health issues. They have properties that they rent out rooms in the houses, townhomes, or condominiums to people who are diagnosed with a mental illness (mine is […]

Not Now (Revisited)

Back in September I wrote a post about things that I told myself “not now.” I thought it might be good to look back on this post and see what happen with the not nows I discussed. These not nows were going out with makeup and a wig dressed in obvious feminine clothing, coming out […]

Why Do I Dress?

I have previously wrote I Don’t Crossdress. It that post I argued for why I don’t crossdress, but I didn’t reveal much of why I do wear the clothes I wear. The clothes that fit my gender. This is a woman. As I woman I choose to dress as a woman. Of course this form of […]

I am Not a Sir

I have had this post on my mind for a number of weeks. It was then that I decided to correct anyone calling me sir or any other male form of address. It does not happen frequently like every time I am out. But, it does occur regularly. Enough to bother the heebeegeebees out of […]

A Lovely Surprise

On Monday I had a wonderful day. Something happened that I had not experienced before as a woman. As a gurlfriend often says, “it is without words.” Nonetheless as a wordy gurl, I will proceed to relate what happen to me. I was at the program I attend three times a week for my mental […]

OMG* Another Appointment

Okay, so I wrote about making an appointment with an endocrinologist (Made an Appointment), and I wrote about being on the waiting list for voice feminization therapy (Yeah! I am on a Waiting List). So, you will never guess what happen? Hehehe. I was sitting in a journal therapy group today. Not that it is […]

I Different Kind of Reveal

Okay, so I have been coming out to various people, starting this last spring with my girlfriend. In the summer I came out to my therapist. Then, some of my medical providers. In October I came out at program. Over the holidays I came out to my family, and I have gradually been revealing my […]